Father's Day 2019 is just around the corner. Compared to the hype surrounding Mother's Day, this year's Father's Day is much quieter, with the exception of a few well-wishes posted on the social media. According to the latest data, the sales volume of Mother's Day gifts is 3.4 times that of Father's Day gifts. The comprehensive consumption power of Father's Day is less than one seventh of Mother's Day. Even Taobao and Jingdong e-commerce companies, which enjoy the holiday hot spots most, have not launched any activities related to Father's Day.
The same as the parents of the holiday, why the mother's Day popular network, but the father's Day is unexpected "cold"?
Bringing back fatherhood, China's next generation desperately needs' male education '
On the one hand, most Chinese fathers are reserved and introverted, and generally do not value gifts as expressions of love. Children tend to be in awe of their fathers, have little communication with them, and do not know how to express their love for their fathers. On the other hand, a survey shows that only about 7% of children choose their father and as many as 63% choose their mother when asked who they want to tell their heart to. This phenomenon directly reflects the current common parent-child relationship in China -- the absence of the father's role and even the absence of "father education".
In the growing process of the child, the father assumes the "tough" side and teaches the child such precious qualities as bravery, perseverance, vision and courage. The child learns responsibility and responsibility through the interaction with the father. If the role of "father education" is missing, the character of boys will be more feminine under the influence of their mothers. Without the role model of the firm role of their fathers, they are shy and dependent, lacking the characteristics of boys. Girls grow up without father's care and guidance, and may have difficulties in communicating with the opposite sex, fragile and sensitive personality and other problems when they grow up.
Although young parents born in the 85's and 90's have long abandoned the stereotypical idea that "the man takes care of the outside world and the woman takes care of the home", they still ascribe the main task of child-rearing to women. Most of the time, the father is busy with social activities, tired of running, free time is also to seize the time to rest, play mobile phone, almost no time to care about the children. There are also some fathers, because they lack father education from childhood, do not know how to educate and accompany their children, inertia is too strict often let the children alienated. Moreover, with the rising divorce rate in recent years, most young children are legally awarded to their mothers, and more and more single mothers appear in society, which leads to the passive absence of "father education" for children's growth.
Then how to face and make up for the "lack of father education" this increasingly prominent problem of children's education?
As the authoritative brand of Chinese STEAM children's creative education, after years of research and practice, Stim Creative Club takes the lead in the world. It has implanted the concept of "male education" into the STEAM education concept, and employs all male teachers with rich experience in creative education. It not only becomes the good teacher and helpful friend of children in the course teaching. After class, I can also get along with children, spend as much time as possible with them to learn and grow, and become a role model for children to learn and imitate through words and deeds.
"Faced with the objective reality that most fathers cannot accompany and educate their children, we hope that through 'male education', we can cultivate children's sound personality with both hardness and flexibility. The other is that male rational thinking is very important to develop children's logical thinking ability." Mr. Zhang, the head of the Children's Handicraft club of Stim, who has raised two children, said.
"Of course, it's still not a substitute for a father's presence. Tim also wants to wake up more young fathers through his concept and thought of 'male education' : put down the busyness, put down the excuse, not missing in the growth of children, a good school is far less direct and effective than the father's company for children."
Charm "six Shang" personality from the father to play with
Compared with ordinary female teachers, Stim's male teachers have stronger practical ability. They not only play a good role in guiding and demonstrating in the handicraft class, but also accompany their children to "play", which is just like "an older child playing with a younger child", which is often seen among fathers walking their children. Because men tend to be very focused and don't like to worry about food and clothing, the usual way to spend time with children is to play together.
So how can we play with quality, play with children's future?
Stim integrates the world's leading STEAM education concept with the experiential hands-on teaching method. While developing nearly 500 class hours of STEAM education courses, it is also equipped with more than 500 kinds of practical operating tools, such as small electric drills, pliers, and electric saws of various specifications. In consideration of safety issues, Stim refits all tools with safety protection. No harm to the child.
The collaborative teaching of courses and tools not only attracts the enthusiasm of children to participate in hands-on activities, but also improves children's creative ability and logical thinking ability. In the process of playing, it also cultivates the perfection and maturity of children's "six quotient" mind: love quotient, emotional quotient, heart quotient, IQ, courage quotient and reverse quotient.
Especially the gallbladder and the reverse business, these two minds need the father's role more subtle influence. In the future adult world, only those who have the courage quotient and the reverse quotient are likely to calmly cope with the challenges of study and life, have a higher possibility of success, and can better enable themselves to obtain a sense of accomplishment and happiness.
In Tim's class, the teacher will give every child a chance to show in public, guide them to realize their own value and advantages, cultivate their communication skills and teamwork skills, and learn to express love boldly!
"I did not expect my son's father's Day will personally make a business card box to me, this is the first time to receive a gift from my son, he always thought I fierce before, not very close to me, thanks to the teacher Tim's training, the child is more sensible than before, and the math train of thought also widened!" Changchun Tim students Liang Liang's father emotive told reporters.
Entrepreneur's Gospel: a dragon help
At present, Stim Children's Manual Creation Club has become the teaching practice base of 15 high quality primary and middle schools, including the Affiliated High School of Northeast Normal University, the Affiliated Primary School of Northeast Normal University, the Affiliated High School of Kedah University, the Affiliated Primary School of Kedah University, and provincial and municipal experimental schools. More than 20,000 students have participated in the theme activities, more than 800 members have registered, and more than 300 club activities have been successfully held. Recently, Stim's new shop attracted hundreds of members on the soft opening day. Even more parents of former students recognized Stim's education model and joined Stim to become one of the entrepreneurs. Stim Children's Entrepreneurship Club promotes the establishment of a harmonious family with practical actions, becoming a dark horse in the STEAM education project that attracted the most attention from entrepreneurs in 2019.
Due to the high cost of curriculum research and development, the mining and training of male teachers cannot be accomplished overnight, which not only raises the threshold of entrepreneurship for the majority of entrepreneurs, but also serves as a competitive moat for Stim project. Stim not only provides education entrepreneurs with a series of hard strength support such as store opening, franchise location and brand unification, but also provides one-stop operation support of soft strength such as course training, teacher training and store operation, so as to eliminate the entrepreneurial concerns of entrepreneurs to the greatest extent.
With comprehensive help and cultivation concept, Stim Children's Hand Creation Club takes "to influence and accompany children's lifelong education" as the enterprise mission, to cultivate more comprehensive talents for families and the society. Under the tide of quality-oriented education reform, we believe that more education entrepreneurs will join Tim's team in the future, so that China's children's education industry will get rid of the sameness and become more and more wonderful
