In the traditional thinking inherent in China, women need to be able to take care of husband and children, three obediences and four virtues, flexibility has become their pronoun.
This is not wrong, but compared with the new era of women, we have seen a better life, seen more markets, wider world, understand the importance of women's rights, women want to rise! I know that a woman should have her own ideas, her own career, her own things to do. When we understand this, it's hard to be a woman who cares for her husband and children in the traditional sense.
The deviation of ideal and reality will torture our soft heart tired.
Complicated family affairs, no one will inevitably become irritable, coupled with childbirth, resulting in a great change in the endocrine environment in the body, the incidence of postpartum depression as high as 15%-30%, we become emotional uncontrollable, became the husband, mother-in-law eyes unreasonable crazy woman.
We long for forgiveness, but we get more advice than we need.
We begin to envy the stars in the big screen, can career, family, love three harvest, think that those are just fairy tales, can not happen to themselves.
However, when there are more and more beautiful girls around them, they compete to show their S-shaped bodies on the moments of friends. They are not only showing their children, but also showing the sun, beach, food and new bags sent by their husbands.
The beast in our heart yearning for a better life becomes more and more restless. Should we continue to compromise with life and suppress our inner desire for food, wine and beautiful scenery, or stand up bravely and be an independent, confident and beautiful queen of S!
This is when we have to make a choice and dare to say "no" to our current life.
Just like Bethany always says, "Be Mom Be Super." Not only do we need to be Sexy, but we also need to be Super Mom!
Be a true queen of S, just like the spokesperson of Bethule.
If you want to be an S queen, you have to be a Smart woman.
Learn to be smart and find your value. Whether it is a career or a good helper at home, find a suitable position, do what you like, and firm confidence that you can do well, always stick to it, always see results.
The smart way of dealing with things will help us to be independent, can not rely on anyone, have the ability to make decisions.
Be a queen of S, but also a Super Mom.
Manage your relationship with your children and be a good mentor and friend to them to help them become better people.
Zero distance between the child, his growth will always have our figure, but will not complain that we intervene in his life too much.
Be a Queen of S and a Sweet heart.
Do the mother-in-law of the little sweetheart, the mother-in-law also as his mother, when her intimate little cotton-padded jacket, with sincerity, also can change the truth.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often incompatible, but the relationship between mother and daughter can be very harmonious, choose a more comfortable road, good for her mother-in-law, but also good for themselves.
Be an S queen and, most importantly, a Sexy girl with a husband.
Know how to get along with husband and wife, and between the heart for the heart, gentle, fully understand him, inclusive of him, do he a person of the goblin, let him never tired of seeing.
After all, a lifetime of people, or pillow, children will grow up far away, parents will be old to leave, and pillow people to the old, time is still very long, may wish to spend some fun together.
After finally tidy up and family harmony, don't forget those estranged Sisters!
We can also be as before, nothing to say, no joy to do! Beautiful together, grow old together!
This is the life Besure advocates: True core, true self, Besure. Throw away the shackles, and Besura together, be a true core true self Queen S!
Complimentary S Queen's Declaration:
① Treat parent-child relationship: mother gives you the greatest love, is to teach you to be the queen of their own life!
② Treat the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: to treat each other sincerely, with true feelings, mother-in-law is mother, I will love her more.
③ Treat the relationship between husband and wife: with the heart for your heart, with tenderness to return your tenderness, do not avoid gossip, only want to be your little goblin!
④ Treat the career: do what you like, with different from ordinary people's super heart, to tolerate, to adhere to!
⑤ Treat bestie relationship: no words, no joy, no work, eighty years old we also want to dress beautiful to attend the sisters' party!
