The mobile phone of a child's life
In January 2017, Ms. Xiao in Xi 'an took her son Haohao, who was less than 4 years old, to Haiquan Bay Hot Spring World on Century Avenue in Xianyang. When Haohao climbed over the low wall in shallow water and deep water area and struggled in the water, Ms. Xiao always turned her back to Haohao to play mobile phone. Haohao was not breathing when he was found.
In April 2016, a mother who was playing with her daughter in a community in Anhui province was run over and killed by a car because the mother was looking at her daughter while playing with her mobile phone.
In September 2014, a mother in Shenzhen, staying in bed playing with her mobile phone as usual, did not notice that her 1-year-old daughter had fallen into a bucket while playing with water in the toilet and drowned.
The same tragedy happened in Zhengzhou. A two-year-old boy has died after being run over by a car in Zhengzhou while his mother was looking at her mobile phone.
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A shocking story is unfolding. When parents want to give all their love to their children, not careful, love and children wasted.
Blame the unsafe environment? Blame our phones for distracting us? Or strange... ? Every young parent who loses a child is endlessly blaming himself. Without that moment, how could the tragedy happen?
But how can tragedy befall parents who have been paying close attention to their children? But is reality only a tragedy called the distance between life and death?
Ga: I'm playing with toys, you're scrolling.
Nearly 1,000 parents were questioned about whether they used their phones when they were with their children, according to Parenting Weekly. The results show that 80 percent of young parents spend their time scrolling, and some of them consider themselves "scrolling" fanatics.
One mother said, "Every time I spend time with my son, I can't help grabbing my phone. In fact, I don't know what the phone is for. Why can't I spend time with my son seriously? Well... This is a common disease, must cure!
No wonder someone would say: "The furthest distance in the world is not between life and death, but when we sit together, you are playing mobile phone!"
We always say that we must accompany our children to grow up and not miss every moment of their growth. As a result, in most families, it becomes: holding mobile phones to accompany their children, so that mobile phones can witness the growth of their children!
Nowadays, many parents have a headache because of their children's obsession with electronic products. Young children have been captured by TV, mobile phones and pad.
One parent told of his child, as long as the TV is not shown, he will cry constantly, once the TV is turned on, the child immediately into a state of concentration, he can not hear anything said to him.
Other parents say the only way to calm a child down is to give him a phone, otherwise, no matter what the occasion, no one will be safe.
Set an example for the best education for your children. If you are a phubber, you always check moments with your mobile phone after coming home, or watch TV series or variety shows with your PAD, then what's so strange about your child's obsession with electronic products?
Neglect children, is a complete injury
I don't know if there are such people around you. They are kind, weak, afraid to do things, afraid to make mistakes, afraid to do anything with all their heart, and rarely say hello to others loudly, they seem to never be confident. Such a person is a person with a low sense of self-worth, which is known as the inferiority complex.
When a child is born, the possibilities are endless, all potential geniuses. But when they grow up, many of them become people who have no passion, no confidence, no curiosity, and no interest in anything.
This is because after the child is born, there is no cognition of self. Mom and dad are like a mirror of the child. If you love him, he will feel worthy of love; if you ignore him, he will feel that he should be ignored.
The source of self-confidence is not adult success, but rooted in the heart, from the acceptance and love of parents.
Many parents think that buying fun and eating delicious food for their children is love, but they do not know that children's requirements for parents are not just material so simple, they need the acceptance of parents and high-quality company, to nourish their growing hearts, to help them learn to accept themselves, love themselves.
When you pick up your phone near your child, you are telling them that your phone is more valuable than you.
When your child is telling you what he or she thinks, and you play with your mobile phone while perfunctory, your child will feel that he or she is not good enough, no one will listen to him or her, and that he or she is worthless.
When you pick up your phone during parent-child time, the child thinks: I'm not good enough, I don't deserve attention. As a result, children learn inferiority, some start to please others, some start to hate themselves, some start to rebel,
You think, mobile phone just take away your time, in fact, it is taking away the child's future!
Please all parents, when accompanying their children, put down the mobile phone, don't let the child's childhood memories only the face behind the mobile phone blurred mom and dad! Don't let the company is just an "empty word", also don't let the company is limited to form, don't be invisible parents.
The future is my independent personality, is the parents from a young sincere accompany! Beschur's message to all young parents is this.
